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love around the clock {gift guide for him}

i promised you a gift guide: part deux, and that's exactly what you're going to get... but for the men in your life. i maintain that valentine's day is all about the women, but that's not to say your man (or dad... or brother!) should suffer. because the v-day man-scale goes something like: impartial to hate it!, your gifts certainly do not have to come pink, red or fluffy to impress.

in years past, i was a sucker for gifts like love coupons, silly boxers and cologne, and while any of these suffice, i figured i'd offer up a few flirty suggestions to let the most important guys in your life know you're into them and their interests.

(pssssst. your guy into beer? a subscription to the beer of the month club is just what the connoisseur ordered!)

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#3 is remote controlled! how fun!
*all gifts featured range in price from $23 - $200.

the midwinter crisis: let's throw a party

i can't even begin to assess the insane weather we've experienced here in the northeast this season (i'm referring to the freak of nature flurries in october, spring temperatures in december and today's snow globe snowfall), but i think these inconsistencies are the cause of my winter itches. lately i've been yearning to accessorize as though it's summer. think bright, fun and shiny. Party time!

i can't wait to experiment with a couple trends in particular that i've spotted over the course of the season (including lip tattoos and sexy head chains) but above you can find just a few of my fancied favorites that, when paired together, produce a fun and flirty ready to party outfit.

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skinny mac and cheese

mac and cheese was a classic when i was a kid, and if i wasn't so damn lactose, i'd be able to enjoy my favorite comfort food, at my favorite spot, off my favorite late night menu on a thursday night, but because my body doesn't exactly approve, i have to settle for substitutions.

however, i use the term settle very loosely. 
after i discovered this recipe for "skinny" (skinnyi die!) mac and cheese soup, i knew where my next meal was coming from. i followed the recipe proportions exactly, as i was hoping to stick to as close to a low-cal dinner as possible. i couldn't have been more pleased with the result: a hearty soup chock-full of veggies with just enough cheese to satisfy my salty tooth.
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needless to say, skinny taste is my brand new go-to site for inventive and dietetic meals. yum!

love around the clock {gift guide for her}

there's no hallmark holiday quite like valentine's day, folks, and it's creeping up quickly. whether you are a die-hard who's already planned your coworkers' goodie bags {err}, or a he-man woman hater, you can put a smile on anyone's face for the day... so long as you love them long-time.
allow me to introduce you to the first gift guide -- for her. whether you're shopping for your sister, your best girlfriend or your sweetheart, these goodies are sure to elate a bit more than the stereotypical box of candies and teddy (not that there's anything wrong with those!).

4. essie "need a vacation" and "set in stones" polish; $8/ea!

ps. don't you love what a spaz i am? i totally got so caught up in the aesthetics that i forgot how to count.

wave length




the longer my hair gets, the more opportunities i get to really style it. of course, by styling, i simply mean lazing, because i'm not one to do anything drastic to or with my hair. that being said, beach waves in the winter are pretty crazy, no?! 

...just roll with it.



i couldn't help but fall for mila's ridiculously sexy and carefree waves, before i realized how insanely easy they were to achieve (wait, that made no sense. i fell for them regardless of how easy i knew they were going to be to achieve. ha!)
the coolest part about making waves? the look can be achieved sans hairbrush... because it's lazy-girl proof.

1. it doesn't matter what you shampoo your hair with (although i kind of love bumble+bumble thickening shampoo because advertising totally hooked me. . . i'm a sucker for big volume hair!).

2. you're going to need leave-in conditioner. it keeps your hair moist (i know, i hate that word too) and easier to work with.

3. styling spray works wonders because unlike regular hair spray, styling spray isn't so thick (thank you, middle school cheer competitions!), so it won't hold every strand of your hair in place like glue. rather, it will act true to name, and create a bit of stiffness so you can mold. you're going to tousle your hair with your hands until it's towel-dry before you begin spraying. flip your head upside down, and scrunch the bottom half of your hair.

*you're going to want to make sure you don't scrunch any higher. hair closer to the root tends to look crimpy when it dries. waves naturally fall to the bottom of your locks (where the weight is!), so make sure that's where you're keeping your scrunch.


4. when your hair finally dries, flatten the tips of your hair with a flat iron set to low heat. you may want to run the flat iron over especially wavy sects of your hair for a wavier (less curly) look.

voi-la!
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color crush: painting the town red

lately i've been so into painting my lips red, that it doesn't matter if i'm swiping a bit of color on my lips before the workday, before i hit the bars, or even before i'm about to pop in a movie for a low-key night (anyone ever see the guardian?). 

like, so obsessed with a sexy red lip.

while it might not feel like it's for everyone, it's my belief that a red lip is a look to grow on.
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below are just a few product suggestions should you feel so inclined to

eat and {cheat}

as anyone who's ever dieted before knows, there's no one simple cut-and-dry way to go about staying trim. by the same token, anyone who's ever successfully dieted knows that cheat days are in order to stay not only sane, but on track. there's a bit of give-and-take in the dieting world. like *i* say, you've got to treat yourself in order to trick your body.

i'm no calorie counter, but if i know i'm indulging in a delicious four-course meal for dinner, my day eating is going to be on the simpler side. think lots and lots of greens. no special dinner plans? i like starting the day off with a protein-packed (sometimes greasy!) breakfast sandwich (no holds barre on the cheese).

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what's your take on saving and splurging? do you agree with my dieting theory?

black and white

there's no way i'd ever be able to claim stake to having a {signature color} but by the same token, there's nothing i feel sexier in than a pinch of black and white! i found inspiration in these chic nails:
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although i've seen the trend explode all over the internet since cupcakes + cashmere's first introduction of the loner nail, i can't help but ooh and ahh over these beauties. although i feel no need to provide you with a how-totorial, i did deem it appropriate to share a bit of my inspiration (plus some glitzy and less pocket-pinching materials to achieve my current favorite look).

{splurge on}
alexander mcqueen's structured leather blazer
chanel nail lacquer in velvet
deborah lippmann polish in today was a fairytale

{save on}
french connection leather jacket
essie polish in licorice
opi polish in crown me already

a 2011 wrap up

listening to the radio every day this past week on my way to and from work, i've heard literally nothing but long-winded recaps of twenty-eleven's most memorable moments. everything from shocking celebrity break-ups {demi and ashton's, and today's announced katy and russell's} to breaking news {osama's death} to events that will go down in history {obama brought the boys home for christmas!} to all else in between.

i suppose you can say it didn't take much more inspiration for me to reflect on my year:

twenty-eleven started off as a super shitty year for me. the little confidence i had in myself, primarily brought on by the fact that i was unemployed, took a toll on many of my personal relationships, namely the one i shared with my mother. it sucked feeling like an adult, but being treated like a child; gone was the freedom i'd enjoyed for four years. gone was the privilege to come and go as i pleased. a prisoner in my own mind, twenty-eleven couldn't have started off any worse.

the warm weather brought a little bit of sunshine, as it usually does, and most importantly, a job, which is arguably my pinnacle of twenty-eleven. my life started picking up again in the summer. i celebrated my twenty-third birthday. my social life became more important again, as it had once been. smiling came easier, as did the new relationships i was able to form, and the old ones i was able to maintain.

as this year comes to a close tomorrow evening, there are several promises i've vowed to keep in twenty-twelve that have proven kryptonite in years past. every year, i remind myself, we grow stronger: mentally, physically, emotionally, and i am sincerely excited for all the new opportunities that twenty-twelve is sure to bring.
compo beach, westport, ct. 7/4/2011


{favorites of twenty-eleven}

something newly tried: hiking!
state visited: ohio!
fear overcome: the fear of being inadequate
memory: helping a friend in need

what are some of your most memorable (and favorite!) moments of twenty-eleven?

mozzarella, tomatoes and shrimp salad

it's tuesday and i'm already feeling the new year's eve pressure to look really good in the sausage of a dress i bought for the occasion. i realize that the festivities begin a mere three days away, but in my world, that's plenty of time to knock off the couple of pounds i've been banking these past few weeks.

crunch mode means lots and lots and lots of leafy greens and proteins instead of my usual deli sandwich (i remind myself that this sacrifice is just for the next 72 hours!). i like turning to raw shrimp (cocktails, anyone?) and grilled {unseasoned} chicken for my protein fix, and spinach and tomatoes are my vegetables du jour. but, even when the pressure's on, i still allow myself a few slices of mozzarella with tzatziki sauce (balsamic if ya nasty!). new year's, baby! new year's.

keeping an eye on your diet this week can certainly help you stay (or get to) where you need to be by twenty-twelve. as a friend of mine likes to remind me, the goal is looking good naked. i mean, is there a better way to put it?
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